WC74 – Review of Wisdom for the Soul

Rvu_chang Book Review

Wisdom for the Soul:
Five Millennia of Prescriptions
for Spiritual Healing

Compiled & edited by Larry Chang
Gnosophia Publishers, 824 pages, Hardcover, $49.95

Reviewed by Toby Johnson

The final quotation cited in this enormous tome of brief quotes of wisdom is from a man named Philip G. Hamerton 1834-1894, who wrote: “Have you ever observed that we pay much more attention to a wise passage when it is quoted than when we read it in the original author?”

Indeed, this book is founded on that fact. And a very impressive edifice is constructed upon it. Wisdom for the Soul is a sort of Bartlett’s Familiar Quotations squared! But unlike Bartlett’s it is all focused on wise sayings, not just famous ones, and organized by themes rather than by author (a 47 page biographical index of the 2500 some authors is appended).

Larry Chang, the creator of this impressive collection is described as a student of Religious Science and the Dharma, with a grounding in metaphysics, spirituality, pastoral counseling and public speaking. He is also described as an exile from Jamaica who was granted asylum in the U.S. based on sexual orientation. So he’s a Gay man.

Chang demonstrates one of those functions of Gay men as keepers of the past and keepers of wisdom that White Crane has come to champion.

This, of course, isn’t a “Gay book” as such, though there’s wisdom from Gay writers scattered throughout. A cursory examination of the author index shows such names as James Broughton, Arthur C. Clarke, Quentin Crisp, Harvey Fierstein, John Fortunato, Michel Foucault, Allen Ginsberg, Peter Gomes, Paul Goodman, Langston Hughes, William James, Audre Lorde, Bill T. Jones, Somerset Maugham, Stephen Sondheim, Annie Sprinkle, Lily Tomlin, Gore Vidal, Walt Whitman, Oscar Wilde, Marguerite Yourcenar, etc.
What an exercise in history, literature and culture it is just looking at the names.

And I’m happy to say my name is among them. I was pleased to see that Larry Chang outed himself in his back cover flap biography, explaining his asylum in the U.S. for sexual orientation. And I am proud to report that I myself get outed in the book every time I’m quoted (in twelve places) because my book titles contain the word “Gay.”

As that quote from Philip Hamerton points out wisdom is often most easily absorbed and remembered in short aphorisms. Larry Chang gives us a plethora of aphorisms. And, now he is working on a book of wisdom sayings for the soul of Black Folk and another for the soul of Queer Folk. I’m keeping my copy of Wisdom for the Soul next to my meditation cushion. It makes a great source of affirmations and inspirations.

The wisdom runs from funny to profound, just as it should. This is marvelous collection.

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Selections from the book are also available on individual cards
for use as an oracle or for posting on the fridge. Check out www.wisdomforthesoul.org

WC74 Review of American Psychiatry & Homosexuality

Rvu_drescher_4 Book Review

American Psychiatry
and Homosexuality:
An Oral History

by Jack Drescher, MD and Joseph P. Merlino, MD, Harrington Park Press, ISBN: 978-1-56023-738-6
299 pages, $29.95

Reviewed by Joe Kort

Growing up Gay or Lesbian, one of our greatest losses – if not the greatest – is not having any rich stories and instructive tales passed down to us by those before us. Usually parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles and other elders pass on family jokes, fables, and stories about their pasts and our own. They tell us things like where nicknames came from, why last names changed after arriving from the old country, how and why their parents behaved and believed in the old days family lore and family history.

But now bookstores are offering an increasing number of titles archiving past events and the recent evolution of homosexuality. As a Gay psychotherapist, I have an interest in the history of how my profession handled — and mishandled  – homosexuality. American Psychiatry and Homosexuality: An Oral History provides an excellent resource for regaining and more fully understanding this knowledge. This book contains numerous  interviews of  those who pioneered the de-pathologizing of homosexuality and helped remove it as a mental disorder from the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, the reference source mental health professionals use to diagnose the clients we treat.

Each time I sat down to read this book, I chose to imagine that I was sitting at the feet of those being interviewed, and that they were telling me stories the way my grandmother and other family elders did with me as I grew up — stories that intrigued me, angered me, made me cry and made me laugh out loud.

Without this kind of oral history, our pasts would be lost, individually and collectively. This book sets the Gay record straight.

The cover illustration is a haunting photo of a man wearing a mask that resembles something from the horror movie, The Hills Have Eyes. Under that mask is Dr. John Fryer, M.D., a psychiatrist who, in 1972, spoke at a psychiatry panel on homosexuality, appearing as “Dr. H. Anonymous,” disguising his true identity — and even his voice. In those days to come out as a Gay psychiatrist meant a ruined career.

Fryer came to this meeting to de-pathologize homosexuality, telling about those Gays and Lesbians who were not troubled and did not seek out therapy. John Fryer took the first public step for us all, clinicians and laymen alike.

I knew that homosexuality was removed from the DSM in 1973, but was aware that Gay political pressure played no role in the APA’s decision to have it removed — as anti-Gay therapists Drs. Irving Bieber and Charles Socarides later claimed. In reality, according to transcripts in American Psychiatry and Homosexuality: An Oral History, the decision was “influenced by the weight of scientific studies” and a vote by the APA’s Board of Trustees, with two abstentions.

I first learned about Bieber when I was in college, writing a paper on why homosexuality was a disorder and should be considered so. I was, then, in my own early stages of coming out and, not wanting to be Gay, sought out literature to support my denial and write that paper. I still have that paper, to keep and archive my own personal journey.

Just as the pioneers transcribed in this book have something to teach those of us coming up — and out — behind them, so do we, the next generations, have something to teach them as well. In an interview, Charles Silverstein, Ph.D., psychologist and well-known author of The Joy of Gay Sex, speaks out against other Gay therapists who, he says, “condemn other Gay people’s sexual behavior” by diagnosing sexual compulsivity. He suggests that Gay therapists using that diagnosis are doing the same to other Gays as heterosexual therapists did, which is to “diagnose these people as suffering from some illness because you’ve identified with society’s rules.”

On this area of expertise, Silverstein could not be further from the truth. Or at least now we know there are gradations and differentiation. As one who specializes in treating sexual addiction and compulsivity, I use this diagnosis very carefully with men and women, both Gay and straight, who suffer from compulsive sexual acting-out, without experiencing pleasure. This is not based on my “moral views” as Silverstein claims, but their own recognition of compulsive, dangerous and life-threatening sexual behaviors resulting from trauma in early childhood, not on being Gay. Still, I appreciate Silverstein’s questioning concern and hard work that resulted in restoring homosexuality to its rightful place of normalcy.

There are details in this book that make me laugh out loud at how insane things were in the 1970s and before. One interview subject — Robert Jean Campbell III, M.D., well-known for Campbell’s Psychiatric Dictionary — recalls how anti-Gay analysts Bieber and Socarides were at it again, trying to keep homosexuality diagnosed as a disorder in the DSM. Asserting that some homosexuals underwent an “identity crisis,” they invented a diagnosis called “sexual orientation disturbance” until someone pointed out that the acronym for “sexual orientation disorder of male youths” is sodomy.

For this reader, one very enlightening interview was with author and psychiatrist Dr. Richard Isay, M.D. who helped openly Gay men and women to be accepted in Analytic Institutes to learn psychoanalysis. Before that, you were rejected if you were openly Gay. Early in my career, Isay’s books, Becoming Gay and Being Homosexual inspired me in developing my work with Gay men, providing psychotherapy to and facilitate retreats, workshops and groups for Gay men. I enjoyed reading how his beliefs about orthodox psychoanalysis changed, and how he let himself grow and re-think the assumptions he had learned and used for years — creating change not only on the outside,  but on the inside as well. I say lived what he preached.

All of the pioneers in this book paved the way for me so that today I could be an openly Gay clinician, publishing books on being Gay by both Gay and non-Gay publishing houses. I feel honored and proud to stand on their shoulders, knowing the pain they went through to help us get to where we are today — liberated!

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Dreams for Sale

The incomparable musical masters Milton Nascimento and James Taylor singing Nascimento’s "Vendedor de Sonhos" ("Vendor of Dreams").

Vendedor de sonhos
Tenho a profissão viajante
De caixeiro que traz na bagagem
Repertório de vida e canções
E de esperança
Mais teimoso que uma criança
Eu invado os quartos, as salas
As janelas e os corações
Frases eu invento
Elas voam sem rumo no vento
Procurando lugar e momento
Onde alguém também queira cantá-las
Vendo os meus sonhos
E em troca da fé ambulante
Quero ter no final da viagem
Um caminho de pedra feliz
Tantos anos contando a história
De amor ao lugar que nasci
Tantos anos cantando meu tempo
Minha gente de fé me sorri
Tantos anos de voz nas estradas
Tantos sonhos que eu já vivi

National Homeless Month

HOMELESS PRACTITIONERS AND ADVOCATES ATTEND FIRST NATIONAL GATHERING for

OVERLOOKED AND UNDERFUNDED GAY, homeless youth

The National Alliance to End Homelessness, National Gay and Lesbian Taskforce, Human Rights Campaign and others gather to discuss advocacy and funding for disproportionate representation of LGBT homeless youth.

WHAT:  Studies estimate that approximately 1 in 5 of all homeless youth are lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender or questioning (LGBTQ). This disproportionately large representation of LGBTQ youth, who represent only ten percent of the general youth population, has been widely ignored. Because of this, federal policy and funding to alleviate the problem are extremely limited. Join the National Alliance to End Homelessness, the National Gay and Lesbian Taskforce, the Human Rights Campaign and more for the first national gathering of LGBTQ homeless youth service providers, policy advocates, legal advocates, and funders during an in-depth discussion to determine the key resources needed to decrease homelessness among this overlooked group. Be there as we set the national agenda to articulate the needs of LGBTQ homeless youth for years to come.

WHEN: Friday, October 19 from 9 a.m. – 11:30 p.m.

WHERE: All Souls Church 1500 Harvard St. NW Washington, D.C (corner of 16th and Harvard Streets. Columbia Heights Metro station.)

WHO: 

Richard Hookswayman, Senior Policy Analyst, National Alliance to End Homelessness

Terry DeCrescenzo, Executive Director, Gay and Lesbian Adolescent Services (GLASS)

Rocki Simoes, Youth Advocate, Avenues for Homeless Youth

Grace McClelland, Executive Director, Ruth Ellis Center

Carrie Jacobs, Executive Director, The Attic Youth Center

The National Gay and Lesbian Taskforce and the Human Rights Campaign will be in attendance

RSVP: Please RSVP to Lauren Wright, Media Associate, 202 942-8246, Lwright@naeh.org

For more information on The National Alliance to End Homelessness, visit: www.endhomelessness.org

Larry Craig…what really happened…

Anyone watch the Larry Craig interview with Matt Lauer last night?  They had this reenactment of the airport bathroom scene, see…

By the way…for the record, Matt…it’s not "the Gay community" that is hanging out in bathroom stalls for furtive sex. It’s men who are closeted, conflicted, and confused about their sexuality and hypocritical politicians who beat us down with one hand and jerk us off with the other. Your constant referral to "the Gay community" as a monolithic entity was as accurate as, say, someone talking about how "women drivers" behave. If you found that as annoying as I did…let NBC know: today@msnbc.com

Oh…and stop apologizing for asking "hard questions.’ That’s what they’re paying you millions of dollars of years to do! If you aren’t willing to do it unapolgetically (what? you’re afraid Craig won’t like you?) then step aside and let someone who isn’t afraid do it and cash the check.

New Hindu Temple

20071016_swaminarayantemple2 A couple of weeks ago my friends Cal and Larry and I went to the new Hindu temple which is about a twenty minute drive from my house. 
It is the largest Hindu temple in North America 20071016_swaminarayanand is a marvel of intricately carved white marble.  The temple is dedicated to the 20071016_swaminarayantemple1Gujarati guru of the early 1800’s Swami Narayan. 
I had visited the new Swami Narayan temple outside of Delhi which is larger and made of red sandstone.
Swami Narayan taught peace among all creatures and was an ardent believer in vegetarianism.

General Strike

Harpers_october It seems that the October Harper’s magazine has an article by Garret Keizer in which he calls for a one day, national, general strike. Walk out of work. Don’t buy anything. Call for a stop to the madness of this  administration’s lies, dissembling and crimes.

It’s about time.

Here are the beginning and closing paragraphs from the piece:

Of all the various depredations of the Bush regime, none has been so thorough as its plundering of hope. Iraq will recover sooner. What was supposed to have been the crux of our foreign policy — a shock-and-awe tutorial on the utter futility of any opposition to the whims of American power — has achieved its greatest and perhaps its only lasting success in the American soul. You will want to cite the exceptions, the lunch-hour protests against the war, the dinner-party ejaculations of dissent, though you might also want to ask what substantive difference they bear to grousing about the weather or even to raging against the dying of the light — that is, to any ritualized complaint against forces universally acknowledged as unalterable. Bush is no longer the name of a president so much as the abbreviation of a proverb, something between Murphy’s Law and tomorrow’s fatal inducement to drink and be merry today.

If someone were to suggest, for example, that we begin a general strike on Election Day, November 6, 2007, for the sole purpose of removing this regime from power, how readily and with what well-practiced assurance would you find yourself producing the words “It won’t do any good”? Plausible and even courageous in the mouth of a patient who knows he’s going to die, the sentiment fits equally well in the heart of a citizenry that believes it is already dead.

… I wrote this appeal during the days leading up to the Fourth of July. I wrote it because for the past six and a half years I have heard the people I love best — family members, friends, former students and parishioners — saying, “I’m sick over what’s happening to our country, but I just don’t know what to do.” Might I be pardoned if, fearing civil disorder less than I fear civil despair, I said, “Well, we could do this.” It has been done before and we could do this. And I do believe we could. If anyone has a better idea, I’m keen to hear it. Only don’t tell me what some presidential hopeful ought to do someday. Tell me what the people who have nearly lost their hope can do right now.

STRIKE! …11/06/07!
STRIKE! …11/06/07!